As a mum of three kids all under four, balancing nappies, school runs, snacks, and bedtime stories with writing a novel feels like the ultimate juggling act. But, if there’s one thing I’ve learned on this chaotic journey, it’s that editing and revision are where a story truly comes together.
You write that first draft, and it feels exciting. As it should! But, then comes the part that can feel overwhelming… editing.
If you’re anything like me, you might cringe at the thought of tearing apart your precious words. But revision is where your story moves from draft to publishable craft.
Why Editing and Revision Are Essential
It’s easy to romanticise the idea of “just writing” and forget that no novel springs fully formed from the first draft. According to writing experts and research, editing is where clarity and emotional impact really take shape. Studies show that the average published novel goes through multiple rounds of revision, sometimes as many as five or six. That’s normal, even for the pros!
For us mum-writers, that means we’re not alone in wrestling with our drafts, even when our time and energy feel stretched thin.
How I Tackle Editing with Three Tiny Bosses Around
1. Break It Up
Trying to fix everything at once is a recipe for burnout. It’s not smart and, quite honestly, it’s not possible. Instead, I break up my editing into phases:
- Phase 1: Plot holes, pacing, character arcs
- Phase 2: Scene clarity, emotional beats, dialogue polish
- Phase 3: Grammar, word choice, typos
This mirrors expert advice from editors who recommend focusing on “big rocks” before the details.
I do this chapter by chapter. It’s a slow process, but it’s so essential to creating a final novel that is ready for publication.
2. Sometimes, You Have To Let It Go
It’s hard to accept that some sentences, scenes, chapters, or even characters might have to go. But every cut makes room for stronger storytelling. Editing is as much about subtraction as it is about addition. Less really is more!
3. Use Tools and Feedback
I rely on editing software to catch the little things (thank you, Grammarly!), but feedback from readers you trust (thank you, hubby!) and editors is priceless. Remember, fresh eyes see what yours can’t.
And yes, it’s okay to feel nervous about sharing your draft. It means you care. But that outside perspective is key to refining your story.
4. Edit in Short Bursts
Mum life means my writing and editing time often comes in tiny pockets. However, short, focused work sessions can be surprisingly productive. So make the most of those 15-30 minute windows!
Why Editing Is Actually an Act of Self-Care
Editing is about honouring your voice and vision while also improving your story. It’s an opportunity to remind yourself why you started writing in the first place.
Be kind to yourself. You’re doing amazing work, especially if you’re like me and managing tiny humans as well.
Embrace the Process (Chaos and All)
Editing and revision are where your novel moves from good to great. It’s messy, sometimes frustrating, and often exhausting. But it is deeply rewarding. So, pour yourself a cup of coffee (or wine), find a quiet corner, and dive in.
Your story, and your future readers, will thank you.
Emilie Turner 