Okay, real talk: writer’s block sucks. Like, big time. Especially when you’re a mum to three little humans all under four (yep, been there), juggling snack demands, tantrums, and somehow trying to squeeze in writing while your coffee gets cold… again. Some days, it feels like your brain just shuts down and the words disappear.
But here’s the thing: writer’s block happens to everyone. Even the pros. And it doesn’t mean you’re not a real writer or that your ideas are gone forever. It just means your brain needs a little break or a new angle to get back in the game. So, here are some things I do when I’m stuck, and trust me, they work, even if your toddler is screaming in the background.
1. Cut Yourself Some Slack
First off, don’t beat yourself up for not writing. Seriously. Being a mum is a full-time job (or seven), and creativity can’t be forced. Take a deep breath, grab that lukewarm coffee, and remind yourself it’s okay to take a breather. You’ll come back fresher.
2. Change Your Environment
When I’m stuck, I find that switching up my surroundings can work wonders. Whether it’s stepping outside for a quick breath of fresh air, writing in a different room, or even just moving to the kitchen table instead of my usual nook, a change of scenery can spark new ideas. Plus, a bit of natural light and fresh air never hurt anyone!
3. Write Something Different
If your current project feels like a brick wall, try writing something totally unrelated. Journal about your day, scribble a silly poem, or write a letter to your future self. This low-pressure writing can get your creative juices flowing again without the weight of expectation.
I often engage in small writing competitions when the block hits. It gets me writing again and focusing on something else.
4. Tap Into Your Senses
Inspiration is hiding everywhere. When your brain feels stuck, try focusing on your senses: what do you see, smell, hear, taste, or feel? Maybe it’s the aroma of freshly brewed coffee, the chirping birds outside, or the softness of your child’s favourite blanket. Use these moments to spark imagery or emotions you can weave into your writing.
5. Read. Never Stop Reading
Reading is fuel for writers. When you’re blocked, dive into books, articles, or poetry, especially outside your usual genres. Reading new things can inspire you and get your creative juices moving. Plus, it’s a nice break from staring at your own blank page.
6. Set Small Goals
Set small, manageable goals: write for five minutes, jot down three ideas, or draft a single paragraph. These tiny wins build momentum and help you feel productive and it feels way less overwhelming when you’re juggling kids and a million other things.
7. Connect with Other Writers
You don’t have to do this alone. Whether it’s an online writing group, a friend who also writes, or a friendly editor, sharing your struggles and ideas can be incredibly motivating. Sometimes just knowing someone else understands your challenges is enough to spark inspiration.
8. Embrace Imperfection
Remember, your first draft doesn’t have to be a masterpiece. Write messy, write bad, write ugly if you need to. The important part is getting words down. You can fix and polish later.
So yeah, writer’s block sucks, but it’s not the end of the world. It’s just a bump in the road. With a little patience (and lots of coffee), you’ll find your way back to your story. Keep going, you’ve got this.
Emilie Turner 